So, we got a cat! Actually, we got her a few weeks ago, but I'm just writing about it now. Funny story, actually...
I had decided that I wanted a cat. The kids were totally on board with this plan. I think Brian was more-or-less indifferent and maybe skewing a little towards "really????" But I had some very specific requirements for a new addition to the household.
1) must be declawed.
2) must be friendly.
3) must not be a kitten (kittens are a crap-shoot for personality later on).
So, I started with a local no-kill cat shelter. I took the kids one evening and we met two very nice kitties. I had to fill out some reference check paperwork to actually go in a pet the cats, but all was well. Allison's favorite was (of course) the 20 pound FIV positive 13 year old cat. Uh - no.
So, then we went BACK to the cat shelter with Brian that weekend. The kids were - shall we say - excited. And I got the impression that our choice to have a declawed cat was somewhat frowned upon. I don't know why - we wanted a cat that was already declawed - we weren't going to have it done to an undeclawed cat.
Well, a few days later I got an e-mail from the shelter saying that they didn't think the cats we were considering would be a good fit in our household. They discussed our situation with the adoption counselors (?) and could not guarantee the safety of a declawed cat in our home. Read-Between-The-Lines = The-Kids-Were-Too-Excitable and the cat would have no way to defend itself against the onslaught of attention. Clearly, a double-income, cat-experienced, well-educated household with children who will love an animal and have no other pets to compete with is a terrible, terrible place for a cat! I totally agree! I mean - look at the horror!!!
So, next stop - Oshkosh Humane Society. Allison and I stopped there on my birthday on our way home from Madison. We met several nice kitties, but none really that I got super excited about. So, I went on Thursday to the Appleton Humane Society and met two very cute cats: Riley, who was Superfriendly, white, and shed like crazy, and Kitty Gaga, who was a little less friendly, but also considerably less sheddy.
The kids had a half day the next day so I took them to meet the two cats. The kids voted Kitty Gaga. I figured there would also be an application, reference check, etc there too - but the lady was basically like "sure, when do you want to take her home!" and I was like....... uh, tomorrow?
The only problem with "tomorrow" was that we had NO cat stuff and I had to teach all day, which meant that I needed to send Brian to pick up the cat. Brian, who had not met and/or exactly agreed to the bringing home of said cat. (I was relaying this story to a friend who then said I was no longer in the running for wife-of-the-year. The fact that she thought I might have at some point been in the running was sweet to begin with).
So, Allison and I went to pick up a bunch of cat supplies, and then Brian and the kids went to pick up the cat. Then I left for NC for most of the next week. Yep! I rock!
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Wiley (for no real reason, except I like it)
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